Published On Jan 13, 2024
Well, long story short, I despise my grandmother(from my momโs side), why? For many reasons
1. She mistreated my mother(the oldest) her whole entire life, and took advantage of my motherโs kindness and generosity towards her.
2. She failed at her raising her kids correctly, neglect the oldest aka my mother, while spoiling the younger ones rotten aka my 2 uncles and aunt. Resulting in the two youngest having bad tempers, while the 2nd oldest is a liar and in debt to my mother(he owes her 300k+) and does not even care about paying the money back.(my grandmother backed him up)
3. She doesnโt even think twice about my grandfatherโs feelings and opinions and makes the decision without telling him, selling the old house with like 50 million NT dollars, but the market(idk, I forgot what itโs called, sorry) has it at 30 million NT dollars.
4. Sheโs aware that sheโs mistreating my mother, but doesnโt give a sh1t about it and continues to treat her like trash, even treats her as a wallet.
5. My grandmother believes in โvalue males and belittle femalesโ and takes it to a whole new level, my mother is a girl because sheโs married to my father, while treating my aunt like a son because sheโs not married(weirdest explanation ik, but I have 0 ideas on how to explain this).
And yet, somewhere in my heart, I still love her as my grandmother, ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ?