In this conversation, the Gottmans and Steven discuss topics such as, how to repair from an affair, why dating apps are broken, the facts behind an awful sex life, and why to stop chasing the idea of 'the one'.

00:00 Intro
02:28 What Do You Do?
05:08 What We Doing Wrong About Dating
09:55 How Do We Find True Love?
11:39 What Is The Most Attractive Thing In A Person?
13:51 The Role Of Self Esteem In How Attractive You Come Across
16:13 There Isn't 'The One'
18:30 Are We Attracted To People Different To Us?
21:11 Do We Need To Lower Our Expectations?
24:52 It's A Red Flag When They Want To Rush Things
29:06 Can You Fake Confidence?
31:25 Science Know If People Connect Well Or Not
35:13 How To Build Confidence
38:04 Differences Between Gender In Attraction
39:37 Why People Need Alcohol When Dating
44:29 Is 'Good Enough', Enough To Be With Someone?
48:06 The Role Of Sex In Attraction
53:40 How To Spice Things Up
57:46 How Much Sex Should We Be Having?
01:03:21 Men Struggle To Talk About Their Feelings
01:09:36 Expressing Gratitude To Your Partner
01:15:55 How To Know If You Should Break Up
01:19:24 The 4 Horsemen Of The Apocalypse In A Relationship
01:25:02 Insecure People Are More Defensive
01:32:19 Do Homosexuals Relationships Last Longer?
01:33:45 Gaslighting
01:38:32 Why People Stay With Gaslighter Or Abusers
01:41:24 How To Help People Going Through Domestic Violence
01:45:01 Treating Affairs
01:47:45 What Percentage Of People Have Affairs?
02:00:42 Does Cheating Help A Relationship?
02:03:34 The Importance Of Connection

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